The Meadows at Firefly Farm

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Reception

Our Wedding

Our Love Story We met the summer before junior year of high school—two teenagers from different counties, attending different schools, brought together by fate and a sweet sixteen party. While everyone else was splashing around in the pool, Helena sat off to the side, completely absorbed in a book. That quiet moment turned into something unforgettable when Bernard struck up a conversation. From there, our story unfolded piece by piece. Between cheerleading and football, we made time to support each other at games whenever our busy schedules allowed. And even as the world shifted with the pandemic, we kept our relationship steady, finding ways to stay connected through all the chaos of those high school years. When college came, it meant new cities, new jobs, and new challenges. But even with distance and responsibility pulling at us, we never let go of what we had. We worked, studied, and loved our way through it all—side by side, even when miles apart. Then, in 2023, during a beautiful trip with Helena’s family, Bernard got down on one knee and asked the question that had been written in our hearts for years. Of course, she said yes. We’ve now graduated and are stepping into a new chapter—planning our forever. These past seven years have been filled with growth, laughter, support, and unwavering love. If the journey so far is any sign of what’s to come, we know the best is still ahead. We can’t wait to see what life has in store for us!

Our Story

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My amazing older sister who has been a huge helping hand in both my life and in this wedding! 

Mackenzie Taylor

One of my best friends of over ten years who will be standing by my side for this new chapter in my life! 

Amelia Clark 

A new name of this list of people from my life but equally as important and impactful! One of my first close friends from Wilmington who made my move from home easier! 

Courtney McQueen

Another best friend of over ten years who I watched get married to the love of her life. And who will be doing the same for me!

Rebecca Owens

My best friend since 6th grade, my college roommate and Bernards #1 hater haha! 

Erin Temple

Youngest of the Flerlage brothers and the biggest personality!

Anthony Flerlage

The middle of the Flerlage brothers! In competition with Bernard for nerdiest and smartest (it’s a close race) 

Christian Flerlage 

Found friendship through the bottom of a whiskey glass

Thomas Ezzell Jr

After meeting freshman year during football, he became a lifelong friend

Colby Johnson

 Another friend from NC State and from NC state football and that created a lasting friendship!

Jerome Williams 

Caiden Mercer

Ashleigh Mercer

Kaylee Mercer

Wedding Party

Q + A

This is the location of the wedding venue for both ceremony and reception! There is a long dirt path for the entrance that is a little easy to miss so be sure to watch for the sign out front!

Bernard & Helena

Bernard & Helena

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